Have you ever been in a situation where you know someone close to you is in a bad situation, but you know if you say something you may compromise your friendship with them? Of course you have! After all, we are all human here..So what do you do? You bite your tongue! People say:
if you dont have anything good to say then dont say anything at all!" But what if what you have to say is beneficial to them? Well I suppose it wont make much of a difference if they arent willing to hear what you have to say in the first place. Sometimes listening to your heart can be the wrong decision, after all, the Bible does say "the Heart can be deceiving" (Jeremiah 17:9). It really does pain me to see those around make decisions that I feel will break them rather than make them, sort of speak. I hate to think that I have to sit back, bite my tongue, and watch as the story unfolds in front of my very eyes. But if I speak up, I may lose a dear friend that I hold close to my heart. I guess all I can do is pray! Pray that I am wrong and that no hearts will be broken. Pray that God shields that friend with his mighty protection. And pray that if they do get hurt , he would comfort them and send me to help them pick themselves up and move forward. Lord, I am so worried for my friend! Please guard her heart and guard her soul ..I trust you will be there every step of the way!
if you dont have anything good to say then dont say anything at all!" But what if what you have to say is beneficial to them? Well I suppose it wont make much of a difference if they arent willing to hear what you have to say in the first place. Sometimes listening to your heart can be the wrong decision, after all, the Bible does say "the Heart can be deceiving" (Jeremiah 17:9). It really does pain me to see those around make decisions that I feel will break them rather than make them, sort of speak. I hate to think that I have to sit back, bite my tongue, and watch as the story unfolds in front of my very eyes. But if I speak up, I may lose a dear friend that I hold close to my heart. I guess all I can do is pray! Pray that I am wrong and that no hearts will be broken. Pray that God shields that friend with his mighty protection. And pray that if they do get hurt , he would comfort them and send me to help them pick themselves up and move forward. Lord, I am so worried for my friend! Please guard her heart and guard her soul ..I trust you will be there every step of the way!
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