Relaxing & Realizing

So after work, I spent my day just relaxing which I needed after a long few days. I came to realize a few things. I have a lot to offer to people & it makes me feel good when I'm being a good friend/ support system for someone else. My friend called & she was having guy problems. She's heart-broken & feels lost in a way. I understand exactly how that feels cuz I've been through that exact problem before. I had my heart broken over a year ago & it was a struggle to get over it. I gave her honest advice that I knew from experience. And you know what? It made me feel really good to help out & telling her I would be there the whole process. I know how bad it feels when you lose the one you love so it was no problem to help her out. I also realized that while I was helping her, not only did it make me feel good, but it made me feel stress free ,as if I had no issues to deal with. It was amazing to feel that way! I do believe that its gonna take some time to get over the love you once had , but it will slowly pass. I don't think all guys are jerks , although most of them are haha. What I've learned is not to be bitter after its passed & trust me it doesn't help to hold on to all that anger. You end up hurting yourself while the other person either doesn't care or has moved on. No girl deserves that pain! He may not deserve your tears , but you certainly have the right to shed them (just not around him). I feel good being there for another in need. I never thought my experiences would ever benefit another person. And in a way I'm glad I went through those trials because in the end I get to help a friend out & that to me is awesome. Hmm, 2012 is showing me things already. I'm eager to see what else I will come to discover!